Lessons from The Way Out: The Process of Dealing with Pain

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Arguably the most influential book that I have read in regards to implementing ways to improve my physical health struggles is The Way Out: A Revolutionary, Scientifically Proven Approach to Healing Chronic Pain by Alan Gordon. I cannot remember if this book was recommended to me or if I stumbled upon it randomly on Amazon (if you did indeed recommend it to me I am so sorry I am not giving you credit and am forever grateful for you helping me out!). The book is written to give guidance on how to implement “Pain Reprocessing Therapy”, which the author Alan Gordon created. He explains it in the book, but it is essentially a process to better connect the mind and body to give you the opportunity to open yourself up to reducing the severity of chronic pain.

Prior to reading this article, you should start with the one I wrote on Neuroplastic Pain (HERE). This will give you an idea on if the “Pain Reprocessing Therapy” Process that I will outline in this article may actually be useful to you or not. If you have already read that one and want to start implementing this process, please continue reading!

As I mentioned in the article on Neuroplastic Pain, I used this process (technically I still do) to help better manage the ongoing chest pain that I am having. It has genuinely helped me to improve my quality of life and I am hopeful that it may help you too!

Generally speaking the mindset with this process is that experiencing pain is an opportunity to re-wire the brain. Because we have decided that we are indeed experiencing Neuroplastic Pain, we have essentially accepted that our brain is misinterpreting pain signals as dangerous and/or firing the “pain switch” when it isn’t actually needed. Therefore the short-term goal for this process is to exist with the pain and use these practices independent of the outcome. If you go into a somatic tracking session expecting to reduce your pain you are missing the point. The goal (in the short-term) is to simply notice the pain and be mindful of it, not fix it. Our obvious long-term goals are to be pain-free and to minimize setbacks, but learning to co-exist with your pain in the short-term is the first step towards achieving these long-term goals.

The Process

This will be an oversimplified version of the process outlined in the book. If you like what you read and want to understand it on a deeper level I would again strongly recommend reading the book. The process is broken down into three categories: “High Pain”, “Moderate/Low Pain”, and “No Pain”.

When you are experiencing a moment of High Pain, you should be focusing on creating safety for yourself. For example if you believe you have lower-back pain that is neuroplastic in nature and you are experiencing pain at a 7, 8, 9, or 10 out of 10, you SHOULD NOT be doing somatic tracking or other mindfulness practices. Fighting against the pain is only going to make things worse for you in the long-run. Thinking “I am in extreme pain, but I can tough it out and do this four hour drive” is most likely going to create further negative consequences for you down the road. Instead you should do the following:

When you are experiencing a moment of Moderate/Low Pain, you should be focusing on finding ways to co-exist with your pain. If your pain is roughly a 6 or less out of 10, you should be in a good enough headspace to work on managing the pain. For me this has been the area with the biggest payoff. You should use the following strategies:

When you are experiencing a moment of No Pain, you should be focusing on finding practices that you like and continuing to use them. This is actually a really tricky situation because it feels weird to NOT have pain. The key here is to “get good at feeling good”. When you feel good, try to focus on the positives in that exact moment (instead of worrying when the fear will come back). You could use the following strategies:

Conclusion

Now you know “The Process” of Pain Reprocessing Therapy – again, if you want a more elaborate explanation please read the book! Using this process has helped me to lessen the severity of my chest pain and ultimately improve my quality of life. I would also strongly encourage reading the other article that I have written in this series to have a better understanding of what neuroplastic pain is (HERE), and to be on the lookout for future articles about this book!

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